People often ask me what our biggest challenges have been transitioning
from the Standard American Diet to a whole-food, plant-based lifestyle. While
overall the challenges have been small, there have been a few, especially early
on.
Restocking the kitchen
When we started out, it seemed like nothing in our kitchen supported our
new lifestyle. We had the wrong everything, from peanut butter, condiments,
bread and cereal, to milk, broth, soups, butter, flour, etc.
I had never really paid close attention to reading ingredients on food
items I purchased, but once I started, it wasn’t just eye opening, it was eye
popping and jaw dropping! I couldn’t believe that foods labeled as healthful
were filled with chemicals, added sugar, preservatives, etc. These foods weren’t
strengthening our bodies and optimizing our health as those sexy little
marketing labels promised, they were poisoning us -- little by little.
Most everything went curbside, which left our kitchen pretty bare. We
restocked with the essentials: unsweetened almond milk, Ezekiel products, beans, legumes, brown rice, natural almond butter, condiments without added sugar, vegetable broth, 100%
whole wheat flour, etc. We added new items that had been virtually foreign to
us -- Bragg’s Liquid Aminos; quinoa; tempeh; nutritional yeast; chia, hemp and flax
seeds; tamari; different flours like spelt and garbanzo; to name a few.
People usually point out that it must have cost money. It did. But it
wasn’t any more expensive than when we moved into our home and had to stock our
kitchen for the first time. At least now we were filling our pantry and
refrigerator with food that would really optimize our health. You can’t put a
price tag on that.
New ingredients
This was a brand new lifestyle for us and one, from a culinary
standpoint, that I knew little about. To that end, I had to learn how to adapt
-- how to cook! I looked up recipes online, gave a LIKE to as many vegetarian
and vegan pages I could find on Facebook, created an online health and wellness support group, subscribed
to Vegetarian Times magazine and bought
cookbook after cookbook. All of this helped me build a new collection of whole-food, plant-based recipes. I also discovered the joy of
cooking, which is something I had never experienced before (prior to this shift,
cooking always seemed so mindless and boring to me … obligatory even).
I struggled with missing ingredients, which seemed to happen more often
than not the first couple of months. There were even times when I didn’t know
what a certain ingredient was or where I could find it. This could be
frustrating at times, especially when I had my heart set on preparing a particular recipe that day.
But I didn’t get discouraged. I knew it was temporary and that in time I’d have
what I needed at my fingertips (or at least know where I could get it). I also
learned the art of substitutions, achieved by trial and error or with a quick Google
search.
I’ll admit there are times even today when I’ll come across a recipe
that calls for an ingredient with which I am unfamiliar or can’t find locally.
When that happens, the Internet is my best friend. I’ve also been known to
order ingredients I need online. In fact, just today I ordered Cacao Nibs and Vanilla Powder online.
Dining out
As I write this, I’m sitting in a restaurant in a Pennsylvania ski lodge.
It has the most carnivorous menu I have ever come across. Steamed vegetables and a baked potato aren’t even options. I choose a greens salad with cranberries, oranges and
almonds (omit the cheese, please). It was so good that I asked for a second
helping.
For the most part, this is the exception not the rule. Restaurants are
becoming more and more veg-head friendly. There’s almost always at least one “vegetarian” option that can be
modified with a simple request to the server. And in the event we find
ourselves in a situation like today -- you can’t go wrong with a salad.
In the beginning, we would look up menus online before deciding where
to eat. Now we have a pretty good handle on it. Ethnic restaurants, like
Mexican, Indian, Thai, Chinese, etc. tend to have more options from which to
choose, but we’ve made it work in American restaurants as well. Restaurants are
also very accommodating with a call in advance. I had a birthday party for Matt
at a restaurant that I knew his guests would enjoy (very meat-heavy). I simply
let the host know when making the reservation that we were vegan. When we
arrived that night, there were options available to us.
Most of our friends and family are extremely gracious as well, so
when they invite us to their homes or out to dinner, they go
out of their way to accommodate us with the food they serve or the restaurants
they choose. If we’re going to someone’s home, we always contribute dishes that can
be enjoyed by vegans, vegetarians and omnivores alike.
Reactions
People fear what they do not understand and many people we know fell right into that. Suddenly everyone was obsessed with our protein intake, often
suggesting we weren’t getting enough. (Mind you we were running almost every day,
not to mention 10, 12, 15+ mile runs on weekends -- not exactly an indicator of two
people dwindling away from protein deficiency).
One person said she just knew I had to be short on some mineral or vitamin -- she couldn’t name which one, mind
you -- she said it was a feeling. (I was actually tested in September and all my
minerals and vitamins were "poifect," as I knew they would be.) Over time, people learn to
accept your way of life, or at least they pretend to do so to your face. : )
Shutting up
Matt and I had to learn to do that, and it has been our greatest
challenge. As I described in earlier posts, learning as much as we have about
the power of a whole-food, plant-based diet and then living it and seeing first-hand
the results, we became evangelists -- annoying little evangelists -- wanting to
convert everyone, especially those who we knew struggled with being overweight or suffered from autoimmune or heart disease, Type 2 Diabetes, high blood pressure, high
cholesterol, etc.
We try now to be mindful of the fact that people have their "AHA" moments
in their own time. Case in point: I knew smoking was bad for my health years
before I quit. We make changes when we’re ready (and some of us, sadly, never make them).
Don’t get me wrong, this lifestyle is our favorite subject and we’ll
talk for hours on end if you get us started -- but only if you engage us. We
don’t want anyone to feel as though they have to defend their dietary choices to
us.
This blog has been a huge help in this regard. It’s enabled us to build
a health and wellness community (ranging in dietary preferences) with whom we can talk freely about the importance
of nutrition and fitness without offending anyone or being offended. It’s also helped us to
continue increasing our knowledge and adding more plant-passionate dishes to
our repertoire.
Despite these very minor challenges, our transition to a whole-food, plant-based diet has been nothing short of remarkably rewarding so far and we expect that trend will continue.